๐“๐ก๐ž ๐Ÿ– ๐’๐ญ๐š๐ ๐ž๐ฌ ๐š๐ง ๐€๐๐ฏ๐š๐ง๐œ๐ž๐ ๐…๐ข๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐”๐ฉ ๐‚๐จ๐š๐œ๐ก ๐๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐‚๐ฅ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐“๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก

Advanced Fired Up coaching is not random.

It follows a clear path.

It includes the ability to take a client through an internal process, moment by moment, without rushing, rescuing, or performing.

When you understand this path, your sessions land.

When you do not, sessions drift, stall, or stay surface-level.

Identifying and implementing these eight stages makes the coaching process clear, grounded, and effective.

๐Ÿ. ๐€๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐ฏ๐š๐ฅ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž

Every powerful session starts with settling in.

The coach helps the client land in the moment, in their body, and in the space. Energy stabilises and safety is established.

There is no action yet.

Just presence.

Without this stage, everything that follows is built on nervous energy rather than clarity.

๐Ÿ. ๐๐ซ๐จ๐š๐ ๐…๐จ๐œ๐ฎ๐ฌ

Once the client has settled, the coach supports them to identify the general area they want to work on.

๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ด ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ๐˜ข๐˜บ?

๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฌ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ๐˜ข๐˜บ?

This stage is about direction, not detail.

It gives shape to the session without narrowing too early.

๐Ÿ‘. ๐’๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐Ž๐ฎ๐ญ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž

Only now does the focus sharpen.

The coach supports the client to clarify what they want to walk away with by the end of the session.

๐˜๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ท๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฃ๐˜บ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ?

๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ค ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ต?

This stage is essential and often underestimated.

The Fired Up Coach takes time here because the quality of the session depends on it.

๐Ÿ’. ๐Œ๐ž๐š๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐ง๐ ๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž

Now the clientโ€™s inner world opens.

The coach explores how the client is making sense of the situation they brought to the session.

Their beliefs.

Their assumptions.

The story they are living inside.

This phase is about understanding, not reframing.

The Fired Up Coach listens without correcting, fixing, or subtly steering.

๐Ÿ“. ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ˆ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐š๐œ๐ญ

This is where depth begins.

The coach brings attention to feelings, sensations, and emotional impact. They stay present with discomfort without soothing it away or trying to resolve it too quickly.

This is where many breakthroughs occur.

And where silence becomes one of the coachโ€™s most powerful tools.

๐Ÿ”. ๐€๐ฐ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ˆ๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ

Insight cannot be forced.

It must emerge.

Here, the coach supports the client to notice patterns, contradictions, or new perspectives that arise naturally from their own awareness.

The coach does not deliver insight.

They let it emerge.

This is a defining distinction at advanced levels of coaching.

๐Ÿ•. ๐‚๐ก๐จ๐ข๐œ๐ž ๐š๐ง๐ ๐…๐จ๐ซ๐ฐ๐š๐ซ๐ ๐Œ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ

From awareness, choice becomes available.

๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ด ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ?

๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ, ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜บ, ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ๐˜บ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ต?

๐˜๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ?

Action may be internal or external. Both are valid when they arise from grounded clarity rather than pressure.

๐Ÿ–. ๐ˆ๐ง๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ซ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐š๐ง๐ ๐‚๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ž

Finally, the learning is anchored.

๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ข๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜บ?

๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต?

๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ณ๐˜บ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ?

The session closes grounded, complete, and integrated.

It is a beautiful process.

And it is also where coaching often goes wrong if it's not done correctly.

๐–๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐‚๐จ๐š๐œ๐ก๐ž๐ฌ ๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐†๐จ ๐–๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ 

Most coaches do not struggle because they lack tools.

They struggle because they lose the process.

  • They rush to insight before presence.

  • They narrow the focus too quickly.

  • They intellectualize instead of staying with emotion.

  • They jump to action before awareness has fully landed.

  • They coach from habit rather than deep presence.

Advanced coaching requires constant awareness of where the client is and the discipline to meet them there.

๐“๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ˆ๐ฌ ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ˆ ๐“๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง ๐ˆ๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ž ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐…๐ข๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐”๐ฉ ๐‚๐จ๐š๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐€๐œ๐š๐๐ž๐ฆ๐ฒโ„ข

Inside The Fired Up Coaching Academyโ„ข, participants learn how to:

  • Take clients through this process with clarity and confidence

  • Always know what stage the client is in and what to say next

  • Contract cleanly without rushing or over-narrowing

  • Respond without leading, fixing, or performing

  • Coach at a level that feels grounded, spacious, and powerful

Getting to this level is not about learning scripts.

It is about embodied mastery through practice.

This is how an advanced Fired Up Coach works.

It is the standard I train inside ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐…๐ข๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐”๐ฉ ๐‚๐จ๐š๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐€๐œ๐š๐๐ž๐ฆ๐ฒโ„ข.

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